I still consider myself to be a novice. I don’t have all the answers.
Here’s some resources I regularly use to learn and read about kink, sexuality and open relationships or polyamory.
This isn’t an exhaustive list of everything on the internet; I’ve included links which are informative and also worth reading in some way (eg: funny, smart, well-written). I’ll keep on adding to the list as I go.
Poly and open relationships
Sex, kink and BDSM
Fetlife: Novices and Newbies group (you have to join Fetlife to read this content)