Recommended reading

mermaid book

I still consider myself to be a novice. I don’t have all the answers.

Here’s some resources I regularly use to learn and read about kink, sexuality and open relationships or polyamory.

This isn’t an exhaustive list of everything on the internet; I’ve included links which are informative and also worth reading in some way (eg: funny, smart, well-written). I’ll keep on adding to the list as I go.

Poly and open relationships 

More Than Two

Ruby Rouge

Lola Phoenix

Sex, kink and BDSM

On Queer Street

The Pervocracy

Rewriting The Rules



The Dirty Normal

Fetlife: Novices and Newbies group (you have to join Fetlife to read this content)

Teachers Have Sex

Girl on the Net