For #SinfulSunday… a sparkly dress. Now where to wear it?

Not only is this my first Sinful Sunday, it’s also the first explicit picture I’ve taken for this blog. I’m nervous about showing this part of my body, so please be kind.

curious mermaid in a blue and gold sparkly dress
curious mermaid in a blue and gold sparkly dress

When tidying today (inspired by Marie Kondo), I found this beautiful mermaidy sparkly dress under my bed.  I’ve never even worn it!

Something about this dress got me really horny. It hugs my curves. It feels soft and sensual where it touches me.

Before I knew it, a Sinful Sunday snap was happening. It’s not all that creative, but I did have fun taking it.

(The tidying has been put on hold) Continue reading “For #SinfulSunday… a sparkly dress. Now where to wear it?”

Goals for 2019: An MMF threesome, compersion, and more

Here are some vague goals I’m developing around sex, kink and polyamory for 2019. After a pretty intense year in 2018,  and what with starting a new full-time job this year, I probably need to expect a bit less of myself in 2019, and just aim for goals that are relatively achievable!

goalposts in a foggy field
Image from Pixabay

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There’s a French word that means “natural vaginal lubricant”- let’s steal it

The word is ‘cyprine’. I want to propose that we all use it!

Sure, we’d need to borrow it from French. But if it works for restaurant, critique, and RSVP, then I think we should make it work for cyprine. Continue reading “There’s a French word that means “natural vaginal lubricant”- let’s steal it”

In praise of my large labia

A post about how normal large labia are, and how I’m still learning to love my own labia.

I’ve noticed myself mentally giving myself a hard time for how my vulva appears lately and I wanted to redress the balance by writing a post about it. I want to start the new year loving and appreciating my body, after a 2018 where I overcame a lot of anxiety and fear around sex.

Pink, blue and white rose with drops of dew on blue background
Image from Pixabay

I have always had a bit of insecurity around my large labia minora, which are ‘outies’ and protrude slightly from my labia majora. I always thought they looked kind of messy and unsightly. Continue reading “In praise of my large labia”

My submissive identity (Part 2: My path into submission)

What kind of a submissive am I?

No two submissives are alike. Every sub needs to define her own path.

As I wrote in part 1 ‘My path into being a submissive’, it took me quite a while to learn enough about the world of kink to begin defining my own BDSM role. I still feel I have a lot to learn. I’ve been on this journey only a few years.

And I think my tastes are, also, constantly evolving as I enter into new play relationships and try new things, with new people and in new environments.

For the moment, here is what I know about my submissive identity, the kinks I have and how I like to play. Continue reading “My submissive identity (Part 2: My path into submission)”