Am I the only one who gets horny when I’m sick?

I don’t mean…when I have glandular fever or monovirus or food poisoning or something, obviously.

Just, like, the way I am now, with a cold that has laid me on the couch for the last 24 hours, stuffed up and fatigued with a fuzzy head and – OK, I know- a lot of snot.

Slightly ill. Not proper sick.

It’s definitely not stopping me feeling horny. Which is weird- you’d think that your body would shut that down so you can concentrate on getting better. Continue reading “Am I the only one who gets horny when I’m sick?”

A reflection: ten things I am proud of in 2018 around sex, kink, polyamory

Happy new year, everyone.

Sorry for the lateness of this reflection post, I know you’re supposed to do them in December. Well, I guess I’m not sorry. Just acknowledging that it’s late!

I have spent the Christmas season pretty unplugged, trying to stay off social media. Connecting with my friends and my loved ones, as best I can, while trying not to get sucked in too much to the whirlpool of parties and drinking. Continue reading “A reflection: ten things I am proud of in 2018 around sex, kink, polyamory”

I’m attracted to my friend. Should I tell her?

Something I’m brooding on this week. Would welcome advice!

We’ve been good friends for about six years, and I’ve always had some sort of crush on her. I’m confused, scared of ruining our friendship. Should I tell her I’m interested? 

Two women's feet in the grass
Image from Pixabay

Here’s a selection of facts in no particular order:

  • Once, maybe five years ago, she and I were drunk and thought it’d be a good idea to have a threesome with her (then) boyfriend, but he passed out. So I left them alone to sleep, and I went home. At some point in the night, she texted me to say, ‘Next time, let’s just do it without him.’ I was too scared and inexperienced to do anything except respond non-committally (I don’t remember what I said but it was probably dumb). We stayed friends and have just joked about our ‘nearly threesome’ since without really ever discussing it more deeply.
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The memories I’ll keep, from my MFF threesome

So, on Monday I finally had my first MFF threesome, with the sexy couple I’ve been talking to (here’s the first post about them). We’ll call them B (the woman) and J (the man).

As you know from my last and very incoherent post, it was a really hot night. But it might not have turned out that way!

I have to admit, I got more nervous as the night approached.

It wasn’t a negative nervous feeling. More excitement nerves. We had been on one date together, talked a bit via text about boundaries and what we wanted out of the situation.

So I wasn’t SUPER anxious about things going wrong. I felt quite comfortable with them and trusted that it wasn’t going to be a disaster.

So what was on my mind? Continue reading “The memories I’ll keep, from my MFF threesome”

I’m too tired to write, have some boobs

I was up all night and this morning, in bed with two sexy people. (See: this)

My mind is now officially blown. I can’t process all the hotness that has occurred. Feel like the luckiest person in the world.

Here are my boobs and my pyjama bottoms instead of a proper blog.Curious mermaid and her boobs, in bed

I think pizza is needed…